Many therapists worry that if they stop posting on social media, people will forget about them.

That worry can increase over the summer.  You’re looking forward to your holiday but you’re wondering if you should be scheduling posts, checking messages and staying visible while you’re away.

The good news is, social media doesn’t have to take over your life.  In fact, taking a break can help you with fresh ideas and renewed enthusiasm.

In this blog, I’ll answer some of the worries therapists have about social media, holidays and posting consistently.

I discussed this subject in my latest podcast episode: Permission to Take a Break.  You can listen to it here:

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Do Therapists Really Need to Post Every Day on Social Media?

The short answer? No.

The pressure to post every day often comes from the social media platforms themselves.  I regularly hear from Meta Business Suite with seductive messages such as:

“People are enjoying your content. Post daily for more engagement”

What they don’t tell you is that keeping you – and your followers – on the platform means they have more opportunity to advertise to you.  They want people to make entertaining content that sustains advertising revenue.

But your aim is different.

It’s to attract enquiries and here, consistency matters more than frequency.

In my interview with Annie Jones, a specialist in local Facebook marketing, she explained that one thoughtful post a week is often more effective than posting every day to satisfy an algorithm.  When the post speaks directly to the clients you most want to help, it’s far more likely to generate enquiries.  It’s also far more sustainable for busy people.  

To access this conversation with Annie, please click HERE.

Should You Keep Posting While You’re on Holiday?

There are several options and which you choose could depend on your organisational skills and your inclination:

  1. Schedule some posts before you go away. This could provide you with peace of mind although you’ll need to decide what you will do about answering any replies to your posts.
  2. Post an ‘out of office’ and forget about social media while you are on holiday.  It will explain why you’re not posting and creates an opportunity for people to wish you a happy holiday
  3. Post spontaneously if inspiration strikes.  Just because you’re on holiday doesn’t mean you’re banned from social media. If you post because you choose to, rather than feeling obligated, it will feel natural.

The most important thing to remember is it’s your practice and your choice.  You don’t need to allow algorithms to dictate your holidays.

Will People Forget About You if You Stop Posting?

The fear is that social media is so busy with so many demands that people will simply forget we exist if we’re not constantly posting.

And while that may be true during a holiday period, if they’ve previously enjoyed your content and interacted with it, it’s likely they’ll see a post when you return.

They won’t even have noticed you weren’t there.

Publish an engaging post – such as a photo of you looking relaxed or a view of where you’ve been – and you’ll probably attract comments because people like to relate to you as a human.

And it will form part of the bigger picture of you and your practice as you continue to post consistently over the weeks and months.

How Often Should Therapists Post on Social Media?

Consistency is more important than frequency.

A therapist who posts once a week over months is more likely to have an impact than a therapist who posts daily for one month and then gives up.

It shows potential clients that you’re trustworthy and here to stay.  It means that if they hear about you elsewhere and google you, they’ll find a page with recent, relevant posts that show you’re serious about your practice.

So rather than thinking about a particular number, ask yourself:

  • What can you realistically sustain?
  • What fits around your client work?
  • What feels enjoyable rather than a chore?

How Can Therapists Have a Healthier Relationship with Social Media?

Remember, social media is designed to draw us in and keep you engaged.  Things like notifications in red, clickbait headlines and emotionally charged content are all designed to capture our attention and are difficult to resist.

So if you’re someone who struggles with scrolling, you’re really not the only one.  I’m holding my hand up here!  

Here’s a few suggestions from my experience:

  • Stepping away from people with whom I compare myself – I’ll simply unfollow them while I’m working on my own triggers
  • Reminding myself that my account is here to help people, not to reward me with likes and thumbs up
  • Spending time with family and friends where my phone is forgotten
  • Choosing to follow accounts that bring me joy rather than accounts that leave me feeling fearful or inadequate
  • Never, ever, arguing with people in contentious posts

Ultimately, it’s about noticing the impact social media is having on your life and relationships and deciding how much time and energy you want to devote to it.

August Social Media Ideas for Therapists

The following awareness days can help you focus on what your potential clients would find helpful to hear.

8 August: Happiness Happens Day

For this day, you could talk about how therapy can help bring healing – not so that people are happy all the time – but to help them find moments of joy and connection again in their lives. Alternatively, you can do a simple engagement post by asking them to share something that’s made them happy this week.

15 August: Relaxation Day

How easy do you find it to relax?  And how might your clients feel about being able to take time for themselves to relax?  You might want to challenge the notion of “laziness”, discuss burnout and how to help yourself when you’re feeling anxious and worried.  

16 August: Authenticity Day

For your clients, you may want to talk about how difficult it is to be “authentic”, how many people are fearful of rejection and try to fit in and not show their true feelings.  Think about how people within your niche may be impacted by masking, for example:

  • Neurodivergent people
  • People who are LGBTQ+
  • People who are grieving

21 August: Internet Self-Care Day

This is so relevant to most of us.  You could discuss: 

  • comparison
  • boundaries
  • doom scrolling
  • protecting your mental health online

What’s one small change people could make to create a healthier relationship with tech?

Final Thoughts

One of the strongest objections I hear about using social media to promote your private practice is the time it will take.  But with thoughtful planning and the use of boundaries, you can have a page that looks up to date and represents how you help your clients.  

It doesn’t have to be a source of pressure.

If posting every day makes you dread even opening up your social media platform, the answer isn’t necessarily to work harder.  It’s to step back, think about who you are trying to reach and create a routine that’s sustainable to you.

And if you need support in thinking about how you can make your social media relevant to people, I’d love to support you in finding out who you most want to help.  Check out my training on Who Do You Want to Help? Exploring Niching HERE.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do therapists need to post on social media every day?

No. Posting every day isn’t necessary to attract clients. A thoughtful post once a week that speaks directly to the people you most want to help is often more effective than posting daily simply to satisfy the algorithm. Consistency over time is usually more important than frequency.

Should therapists post on social media while they’re on holiday?

There isn’t a right or wrong answer. Some therapists choose to schedule posts before they go away, while others prefer to post an out-of-office message or take a complete break. The most important thing is choosing an approach that supports both your wellbeing and your private practice.

Will people forget about me if I stop posting on social media?

Probably not. Most people are focused on their own lives and are unlikely to notice if you don’t post for a week or two. If you’ve been posting consistently before your holiday, simply returning with a relevant, engaging post is usually enough to reconnect with your audience.

How often should therapists post on social media?

Choose a posting schedule you can realistically maintain. One post a week is often enough to keep your page active and demonstrate that you’re engaged in your private practice. A sustainable routine is far more valuable than an ambitious one that becomes impossible to maintain.

What should therapists post about on social media?

The most effective posts focus on the concerns of the clients you most want to help rather than trying to appeal to everyone. Sharing helpful information, answering common questions and talking about the issues you regularly help clients with can all build trust and encourage enquiries.

How can therapists avoid social media burnout?

Healthy boundaries can make a huge difference. Consider limiting time spent scrolling, unfollowing accounts that encourage comparison, turning off unnecessary notifications and remembering that social media is there to support your practice, not become another source of stress.

Is it OK to take a break from social media?

Absolutely. Taking a break can help you return with fresh ideas and renewed enthusiasm. Looking after your own wellbeing is just as important as looking after your marketing.

Why isn’t my social media attracting therapy enquiries?

If your social media isn’t generating enquiries, the problem isn’t always how often you’re posting. Often, it’s because your content is too general. When you’re clear about who you most want to help, it becomes much easier to create posts that speak directly to the concerns of potential clients and encourage them to get in touch.

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